Showing posts from March, 2014

Can you Morph with Suggestions?

Are you a rigid person? Stuck in your own ways? Well, don't be.As each moment and day lies in the balance, let's try to remain OPEN MINDFUL to others' suggestions. Often times your life SUCCESS depends upon it. If people, family, friends, lovers, and co-workers take the actual time to think and give you verbal suggestions, listen!Digest the suggestion, understand the source and point of view it came from, and if you desire, MORPH to incorporate the suggestion and improve your own life!What do you think of this idea? Are you able to listen, be open minded, and morph to suggestions? Or, are you closed minded, as an obnoxious "know it all" type?Do you care enough about others to give your HONEST OPINIONS, and suggestions? You should. It will selfishly enhance your own surrounding environment. One specific example that comes to mind, was a suggestion my former real estate manager made to me. At the time, I working as a realtor in NYC. Although my heart was in the rig…

Open Mindful to FORGIVENESS?

Are you Mr./Ms. reader OPEN MINDFUL to granting FORGIVENESS?Yes? No? Maybe? Sometimes? Depends? Leave us a comment, will ya?Personally, I think it depends on each individual case, and the circumstances, timing, people involved, environment, level of sobriety, and other numerous factors. Yet forgiveness is something we should be open mindful to.Whether you are the individual granting forgiveness or the party that is seeking forgiveness, both sides are worth understanding. People do make mistakes, some are more honest and innocent than others. Some mistakes are large, and some are minuscule. There are probably cruel people on this earth (i.e. death row inmates) that are-cold blooded, and deserve zero leeway and sympathy. The category of forgiveness has a wide spectrumPersonally, I have forgiven a parent for spanking and rearing me as a child. In the future event of potential parenthood, I am unlikely to repeat this rearing practice. Another example of granting forgiveness is when my own…

Adapt to your Environment

Let's be and always remain OPEN MINDFUL. Today's subject takes your physical surroundings, city, nature, and society make-up into account and focus.What the heck do I mean by this?For example, if you live in the countryside, perhaps you should be open mindful to the country life culture. For example, boots, trucks, flat land, country music, chewing tobacco, farm animals, etc. Another example, if you live by the beach, perhaps be open mindful to being in shape & swimming in the ocean. Try to embrace the culture around a beach city. Learn to say dude, wear a bathing suit, sandals, sunglasses and nap on the sand.If you live in a hipster city, be OPEN MINDFUL to their culture, fashion and trends. You may learn something new? Don't be prejudice. You would not care for people to be prejudice towards you. Think and act, like the GOLDEN RULE.Basically, what we can all most likely agree on, is to embrace and remain OPEN MINDFUL to the culture and society norms that you visit, t…